1、避免在月经期上坟:传统观念认为,女性在月经期间身体较虚弱,容易引起不洁之气,因此不宜参与祭祀活动。
2、穿着得体:上坟时应穿着素色或黑色的服装,避免穿着过于鲜艳或暴露的衣物,以免显得不尊重逝者。
3、不戴饰品:在上坟期间,应避免佩戴过多的饰品,如鲜花、耳环、项链等,以免带来不必要的视觉刺激或破坏气氛。
4、不化浓妆:不应涂抹鲜艳的口红或指甲油,尽量保持自然朴素的状态。
5、控制情绪:上坟时应保持肃穆和庄重,避免过度哭泣或表达过度的悲伤,以免扰乱其他祭拜者的心情。
6、不串门逛灵堂:在上坟期间,应避免串门或逛灵堂,以免打扰到其他人家属纪念和追思逝者的心情。
7、不喧哗嬉笑:在坟前应保持肃静,避免大声喧哗或嬉笑,以免对逝者不敬。
8、遵守坟墓礼仪:按照当地的习俗和传统,正确地进行祭拜和祭祀活动,尊重逝者的遗愿和家族的安排。
9、孕妇和哺乳期妇女:她们的身体状况较为特殊,需要特别注意身体的抵抗力和稳定,故不宜参与上坟活动。
10、生病期间:如果女儿生病,尤其是重病或传染病,最好避免参与上坟活动,以免病情加重或传染给他人。
1, avoid to be in menses visit a grave to cherish the memory of the dead: Traditional idea thinks, the female is in menstruation body is frailer, cause feculent energy of life easily, because this is unfavorable,participate in sacred activity.
2, dress is decent: Should wear when visit a grave to cherish the memory of the dead plain coloured or black dress, avoid dress too bright-coloured or the clothings that expose, lest appear,do not respect the person that die.
3, do not wear adorn article: During visit a grave to cherish the memory of the dead, should avoid to adorn act the role of too much article, wait like flower, dangler, necklace, lest bring,destroy atmosphere needlessly.
4, do not make up thick: Do not answer the lipstick with bright-coloured daub or fingernail oil, hold natural and simple position as far as possible.
5, dominate a sentiment: Should keep solemn and respectful when visit a grave to cherish the memory of the dead and grave, avoid excessive cry or express exceeding sadness, the mood of the person that lest disturb,other hold a memorial ceremony for is done obeisance to.
6, do not string together the door to ramble mourning hall: During visit a grave to cherish the memory of the dead, should avoid to string together the door or ramble mourning hall,
7, not roaring be laughing and playing: Solemn silence should maintain before grave, avoid to make a racket or be laughing and playing, the person that lest be opposite,die is irreverent.
8, abide by graveyard formal: According to place consuetudinary with the tradition, undertake hold a memorial ceremony for is done obeisance to correctly with sacred activity, value the last wish of the person that die and familial arrangement.
9, pregnant woman and lactation woman: Their body situation is relatively special, need is special the resistance that notices the body and stability, reason is unfavorable participate in activity of visit a grave to cherish the memory of the dead.
10, during falling ill: If the daughter falls ill, weigh disease or contagion especially, had better avoid to participate in activity of visit a grave to cherish the memory of the dead, lest the illness is aggravating or catch another person.